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Sunday, October 25th, 2009
My daughter and I had an interesting conversation the other day about her PE class at school. She’s a sophomore in high school and is taking team sports for PE. As one of a handful of girls she is, not unexpectedly, in the minority with a LOT more boys in the class.
Normally, my daughter is fairly aggressive on the sports field. She enjoys getting dirty and doesn’t shy away from a

challenge. In this class, however, she’s been holding back. Playing flag football, she would be open and never get the pass. In volleyball, the ball would be coming right at her and a ball hog (guy) would come from behind and take the shot, never giving her a chance. She got tired of fighting, and decided it wasn’t worth it. It wasn’t worth the fight.
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Tuesday, October 6th, 2009
I knew from the moment Patrick Lencioni walked on stage and warned the audience about his ADD tendencies (look! A bird!) I was going to like him. My first instinct was dead-on and as he went on to compare parenting to business (which validated MY BOOK), I began to like him more and more .
Although I’ve read his book, The 5 Dysfunctions of a Team, many times, and even used it with my management team many years ago, he still managed to share the material in a fresh and engaging manner.
Since I don’t want to reiterate the whole book here (it’s a good one so go buy it and read it!), I wanted to share the couple of nuggets that I took away that I don’t remember reading in the book: (more…)
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Monday, August 10th, 2009
About half way into my walk across the trails of McDonald’s Hamburger U the other morning, I realized the parallels between that adventure and my life. I found myself a bit lost, but next to a lake which, with the rising sun, caught the reflection of the surrounding trees in a breath-taking way. As I slowly looked around the rocks forming the edge of the water, I spied a majestic bird of some sort – perhaps a heron – just basking in the early morning rays. My only regret was that I didn’t have a camera to capture what I saw.
How I got to this lake I had no idea. I was trying to follow a map the hotel had given me but at some point I must have taken a wrong turn. The paths were not well marked and as I result I got “lost” and found myself in an incredible place. I knew I was exactly where I was supposed to be. It was a lot like my life.
I’ve taken many unmarked paths in my time, some covered with nasty brush and briars, some clear. I’ve certainly gotten lost a time or two. But somehow, I eventually – always – ended up in an incredible place. Had I obsessed over trying to figure out exactly where I was and how I got there, rather than having faith that I would not only meet my objective (fresh air and exercise for my walk) but that I would also somehow find my way back, I would have missed it. I would have missed a marvelous view and a peaceful, thoughtful moment.
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Friday, April 24th, 2009
I get loads of e-mails every day – in the hundreds – and once in a while a message comes across that makes my day. Last week I received a note from a woman I had been mentoring in Iraq through the US Iraqi Businesswomen’s Partnership (USIBP) initiative, a program I helped create some 18 months ago working with various organizations including the US State Department.
I had not heard from her in over a year but I knew she had just recently given birth to her third child so I figured life just got in the way. In our correspondences last year, she was busy operating her pharmacy (she is a licensed pharmacist) and was trying to grow it. We talked about her challenges in finding good people to manage the daily operations and came up with some ideas on how she might be able to do that.
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Tuesday, April 7th, 2009
Our actions and words have so much more impact on others than we could ever realize. If you happen to not believe this, just read “The Five People You Meet In Heaven” by Mitch Albom or watch one of my favorite movies, “It’s a Wonderful Life”. As a mother, I know I have an influence on my children although I sometimes don’t see it (or realize they’re even LISTENING TO ME) until way after the fact. When I do hear them repeating something I said or making a good decision based on something I’ve harped on, I feel an incredible sense of satisfaction. I recently was able to feel that same level of gratification in my professional career as well.
When I was in South Africa last year, I was part of a team that spoke at seminars across the region. One of the specific exercises that I led the groups in was in perfecting your elevator pitch. They seemed to really embrace the process while I encouraged people to really think outside the box and work to make their visions a reality.

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Friday, March 13th, 2009
One of my favorite parts of being a parent is learning from my kids. My daughter, Sydney, recently reminded me of a trait that we seem to lose as adults – the pure joy of taking a chance and shattering what we thought we were to create something new.
A little background: She had been playing lacrosse for the past 4 years and chose her current high school in part because of their lacrosse team – one of the tops in the country. Over the past year, or though, the game had lost its joy for her. It just wasn’t fun anymore. So when she announced to us just this last January that she was done, we weren’t totally surprised, though I suspect her coach was.
Her next announcement, however, DID surprise us. She wanted to try out for the high school softball team. The funny thing was she had never played on a team before. Ever. We were cautiously optimistic – she is very athletic but having never played, imagined she would be at a disadvantage.
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Wednesday, January 14th, 2009
I know I talk a lot about how important it is for entrepreneurs and others to make room for failure in business, but when it comes to letting your children fail, I’m having a harder time of it. Read my recent blog post on Working Mother Magazine about the challenges I’m having with my daughter and failure.
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Thursday, December 4th, 2008
Sometimes I swear I am ADD. Ok, most of the time. In fact, in the time it takes me to write this blog, I bet I do at least 4-5 other things, too. I know that multi-tasking is not unusual, but sometimes it is imperative that we look past the distractions of a cat in front of the monitor (yes that is my cat in the photo below) or a holiday looming in our future to focus on what we really need to achieve. Do YOU know what you really need to get done today?
I was talking recently with a friend who is the Director of Manufacturing for a nearly $1B snack food company. He noted that if you walk onto their manufacturing floor and ask an hourly operator about the three things he absolutely needs to do today, he can tell you. That is a company that works to stay focused on their goals, and they’re actually hiring right now. Coincidence?
For those of us with attention issues or what I call shiny penny syndrome, it’s hard enough to focus. At this time of year, it feels nearly impossible. The only way I’ve found ANY success with this is to visibly post my priorities and goals in front of my face as a constant reminder. Just to be clear: your goals are what you want to achieve, your priorities are those things you need to focus on to achieve them.
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Wednesday, November 19th, 2008
I was recently talking with a good friend of mine about her continuing struggle with the decision to work or stay home after she becomes a mom. She absolutely wants to keep working, but she gets continual flack from her husband’s family. She’s torn. I shared with her a paper that my daughter wrote a couple of weeks ago that I now have pinned to my bulletin board. After reading it (and wiping the tears from my eyes), I realized she was crying too. She then begged me to post the letter, to share it with other women. I wasn’t sure because it felt self-aggrandizing but she convinced me that the letter is NOT about me. It is about every mother out there who questions whether she’s doing the right thing by her children. It is about the power of living a fulfilled life and proof that your kids DO see through whatever it is you’re doing. Once my daughter said it was OK, I decided to post it. You can read it on my Momblog on Working Mother Magazine’s website.
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Monday, October 20th, 2008
If you’ve been following me on Twitter, you know that I have been less than impressed with the press coverage of the economy lately. Every time I turn around, there’s doom and gloom and the ‘R’ word (recession). It’s not that I don’t think there are some serious problems and difficult times ahead. As an entrepreneur, I have certainly seen a lot of business-related activities slow down or in some cases grind to a halt (specifically where the government took over a potential client – go figure!). Undoubtedly, Americans have been spending way too much money and going too far into debt. In reality, I think a correction is needed. My question, though, is how much does the media play into the hype and make it worse?

Case in point: my husband had some interesting discussions at a recent casual get-together. One gentleman is in the mortgage industry. The question was asked: do you guys have any money to lend? The answer: absolutely! We just can’t get people in the door. They’re too afraid. Same with a friend who is a car dealer. They have had to cut back on their inventory of cars (which shrinks their profit margins) but they have plenty of money to lend…just no one to lend it to.
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